All posts by Trần Đình Hoành

I am an attorney in the Washington DC area, with a Doctor of Law in the US, attended the master program at the National School of Administration of Việt Nam, and graduated from Sài Gòn University Law School. I aso studied philosophy at the School of Letters in Sài Gòn. . I have worked as an anti-trust attorney for Federal Trade Commission and a litigator for a fortune-100 telecom company in Washington DC. I have taught law courses for legal professionals in Việt Nam and still counsel VN government agencies on legal matters. I have founded and managed businesses for me and my family, both law and non-law. I have published many articles on national newspapers and radio stations in Việt Nam. In 1989 I was one of the founding members of US-VN Trade Council, working to re-establish US-VN relationship. Since the early 90's, I have established and managed VNFORUM and VNBIZ forum on VN-related matters; these forums are the subject of a PhD thesis by Dr. Caroline Valverde at UC-Berkeley and her book Transnationalizing Viet Nam. I translate poetry and my translation of "A Request at Đồng Lộc Cemetery" is now engraved on a stone memorial at Đồng Lộc National Shrine in VN. I study and teach the Bible and Buddhism. In 2009 I founded and still manage dotchuoinon.com on positive thinking and two other blogs on Buddhism. In 2015 a group of friends and I founded website CVD - Conversations on Vietnam Development (cvdvn.net). I study the art of leadership with many friends who are religious, business and government leaders from many countries. I have written these books, published by Phu Nu Publishing House in Hanoi: "Positive Thinking to Change Your Life", in Vietnamese (TƯ DUY TÍCH CỰC Thay Đổi Cuộc Sống) (Oct. 2011) "10 Core Values for Success" (10 Giá trị cốt lõi của thành công) (Dec. 2013) "Live a Life Worth Living" (Sống Một Cuộc Đời Đáng Sống) (Oct. 2023) I practice Jiu Jitsu and Tai Chi for health, and play guitar as a hobby, usually accompanying my wife Trần Lê Túy Phượng, aka singer Linh Phượng.

Don’t go with the masses

Dear Brothers and Sisters,

Most people of the world make a huge mistake – they go with the masses. Whatever numerous people do, they would consider as correct, right, standard. In the Vietnamese culture, we have the quintessential phrase “Không giống ai” (not like anyone). If you are không giống ai, you are wrong or, at least, weird. If you do something không giống ai, you are nutty in the head. Continue reading Don’t go with the masses

Nếu – If

Chào các bạn,

Chị Lê Uyên nhờ Thu Hương tìm bài dịch cho bài thơ “If” của Rudyard Kipling, nhà văn và nhà thơ Anh quốc.

Mình phụ TH tìm, chẳng tìm ra. Và mình thích bài “If” này nên dịch luôn cho tiện. Làm quà cho chị Lê Uyên, ba chị, và các bạn.

Mến,

Hoành Continue reading Nếu – If

When you’re sick

Dear Brothers and Sisters,

When you’re sick, you’re tired. The body doesn’t want to move. It wants to stay in bed and sleep. Because it’s out of energy? Obviously. But the truth is that, your body is not out of energy – it is using all its energy to fight against your illness and help you recover. In short, your body is using every bit of your energy to help you recover. It wants you to sleep, not wasting energy on anything else, so that it can work on your recovery.

So, my friends, when you’re sick, you need to rest, so that your body has enough energy to heal you.

Same thing with spiritual illness. When you sick, rest. Continue reading When you’re sick

What are you improving ?

Dear Brothers and Sisters,

I know that everyone of us is working to improve ourself. The question is “improving what?”

Most of us try to improve doctoring skills, lawyering skills, engineering skills, selling skills, teaching skills… but the most important skill, the mother of al other skills, few people pay serious attention to. That is the skill to keep a pure heart. Continue reading What are you improving ?

Ave Maria – Schubert – Luciano Pavarotti

Chào các bạn,

Dưới đây là bài hát Ave Maria của Schubert do tenor Luciano Paravotti trình diễn với lời Latin. Ave Maria là lời kinh cầu nguyện với Đức Mẹ Maria. Tiếng Việt gọi là Kinh Kính Mừng, đọc cực kỳ thường xuyên trong các nhà thờ công giáo, thường nhất là khi lần hạt mân côi.

Dưới đây có lời kinh Ave Maria với tiếng Latin, tiếng Anh và tiếng Việt.

Mời các bạn thưởng thức.

Mến,

Hoành

Continue reading Ave Maria – Schubert – Luciano Pavarotti

Ups and downs

Dear Brothers and Sisters,

Life is ups and downs constantly.

When you’re on the way up, you jump around happily. When you’re down, you lie on bed feeling close to death.

That is normal, but no one feels normal, especially when they go down. In addition, everyone will agree with me that your tough days are much more numerous than your easy days. Say, marriage, the peak of marriage life is the wedding celebration and the honeymoon. From the peak, you can’t go any higher and can only go down. Two persons living together may have all kinds of problems very quickly and these problems come in long series – one gives birth to the next, each problem is a mother of a long chain of childrens, and each child soon becomes a mother too. Problems can spread with a geometric progression aka exponential growth. Continue reading Ups and downs

 A deadly incident underscores the risks for Chinese migrants journeying to the US

April 1, 2024 
Marlon Sorto, Omar Fajardo and Yong Xiong, CNN
A rendering of the Chang'e-8 mission was shown at the International Astronautical Congress held in Baku, Azerbaijan, on October 2.

Chinese migrants have been found dead on the coast of southern Mexico, authorities said, after their boat capsized along a popular but perilous route for illegally entering the United States. The bodies of the seven women and one man were discovered Friday on a beach in San Francisco del Mar, Oaxaca, the state’s prosecutor’s office said in a statement.  Continue reading  A deadly incident underscores the risks for Chinese migrants journeying to the US

(Everything I do) I do it for you

(Everything I Do) I Do It for You là bản nhạc do ca nhạc sĩ Canada, Bryan Adams, viết và hát, trong phim Robin Hood: Price of Thieves (1991). Lần đầu tiên phát hành trên album Waking up the Neighbours (1991).

Robin Hood là huyền thoại dân gian Anh quốc, có lẽ bắt đầu từ thế kỷ 14, là một anh hùng dân gian, cướp của người giàu để cho người nghèo. Robin Hood được kể là rất giỏi về cung và kiếm, cùng các bạn bè trong nhóm Merry Men (Người vui vẻ) đóng quân trong rừng Sherwood Forest, chống lại Sheriff (cảnh sát trưởng) của Nottingham. Từ cuối thời Trung cổ (Late Middle Ages), Robin Hood luôn là đề tài sáng tác trong thi ca, văn chương, kịch nghệ, mỹ thuật, phim ảnh và nhiều loại nghệ thuật khác. Phim Robin Wood năm 1991 của Mỹ do Kevin Costner và Michelle Peiffer thủ vai chính.

Ngay từ khi ra đời, bản (Everything I Do) I Do It for You là một thành công lớn trên các danh sách nhạc hay quốc tế: Đứng số 1 trong 16 tuần liền trên UK Singles Chart (thời gian đứng đầu dài nhất trong lịch sử của các danh sách nhạc tại Anh), số 1 trong 7 tuần liền trên Billboard Hot 100 của Mỹ, và số 1 trong 9 tuần liền trên RPM singles chart của Canada.

Bản nhạc thắng giải Grammy 1992 cho “Bản nhạc hay nhất cho phim hay TV show” và được đề nghị giải Oscar cho bản nhạc hay nhất. Bản nhạc này đứng hạng 16 trên danh sách Billboard’s All Time Top 100 (100 bản nhạc hay nhất của mọi thời đại). Continue reading (Everything I do) I do it for you

Learning positive spirituality

Dear Brothers and Sisters,

Many people do want to learn how to live a positive spiritual like. The problem is that they read about so many things, which overwhelm them. Just confusion and fear.

But the learning is much simpler.

  • Jesus says two sentences called Two Greatest Commanments to convey all his teachings: “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.” (Matthew 22:37-39).

These two Greatest Commandments go together: you need to love God, before you can love all people, because many people are unloveable – without God you shall not have enough strength to love all people.

  • The Buddhists say there are 84 thousand methods (pháp môn) to achieve Enlightenment. You just need one, say, non-attachment aka non-grasping aka non-sticking. If you don’t attach to anything, you shall be Enlightened. Ưng vô sở trụ nhi sanh kỳ tâm – non-attaching to anywhere, the Enlightened heart shall be born.

Just focus on one method and don’t worry about other thousands of methods, you shall not be confused and overwhelmed and shall reach Enlightenment.

  • Or you can practice honesty about everything to everyone at everytime, here and now. You shall gain Enlightenment and purify your heart.

These are spiritural rules to help you gain Enlightenment and suscess in whatever you do, be that selling bánh mì or teaching or doctoring.

The way of positive spirituality is extremely simple. You want to be successful in your soul and in your work, you shall succeed, however you define success.

With compassion,

Hoành

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Stand by me – Đứng bên anh

500 Greatest Songs of All Times

Chào các bạn,

“Stand by me” do Ben E. King viết với Jerry Leiber và Mike Stoller, và được Ben E. King ghi âm lần đầu tiên năm 1961, trở thành US Top 10 hit năm đó. Năm 1986 Ben E. Kinh ghi âm lại lần nữa cho cuốn phim “Stand by me” và cũng lên US Top 10 lần nữa, và thành hit số một ở Anh năm 1987.

Bài hát đã có khoảng 400 ca sĩ tên tuổi trên thế giới ghi âm, kể cả John Lennon của the Beatles. Continue reading Stand by me – Đứng bên anh

The Matter of Talking

Dear Brothers and Sisters,

We try to think carefully before we talk, to make sure the listeners agree with us. Talking is an art – what to talk, when to talk, how to start the introduction, what is the main part, how to conclude, what kind of language to use – formal or informal, what clothes to wear, what to avoid mentioning… Everyone of us use many of these considerations when we talk to parent, teacher, friend, the bank, boss, customer, client… Talking is a very high art of advocacy.

But probably you all have experienced that whatever you try, it’s usually clumsy and uncomfortable and seems not working. You feel like all your trying has little effect and you could do a better job by not trying all those techniques.

Why?

The first reason is what when you have to worry about so many techniques at the same time, none of the techniques comes out well. Also, you can’t concentrate on the content of the talk.

The second reason is that regardless of how much you try to hide, if you are not sincere, your insincerity will show through for the world to see; all the external conversation techniques cannot hide it.

What does that mean to us?

It means that, firstly, your inner thinking and attitude will always be apparent for the world to see.

Secondly, therefore, you always want to make sure you have good thinking and good attitude about your conversational partner and the subject matter. Let your natural inner thinking and attitude present themselves in your aura. They will do the advocacy for you.

Thirdly, you focus 100% on conversation, and nothing else. That is every-minute Zen.

I often have many meetings – opposing counsel, CEO of a company to negotiate a contract… Before I walk into the meeting room, I always pray: “Father, the folks I am meeting today are my friends. My job is to support them to find a common solution. They are not my opponents and enemies. Please work with me and don’t let me go off track.” With that attitude, I negotiate very well in any setting.

Many people have said to me the first time they met me: “You have a very sincere and trustworthy look. You must be very successful.” I know that they were not flattering, because in my heart, I was very honest to them and respectful toward them.

Obviously, many people can read your aura.

So, if you’re smart, have the right heart, and let you heart and your aura do the advocacy each time you talk.

With compassion,

Hoành

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Chào mừng lễ Phục Sinh 2024

Chào các bạn,

easteraroundtheworldChúa nhật, 31 tháng 3, 2024 là lễ Phục sinh (Easter), ngày lễ quan trọng nhất trong Kitô Giáo (Công giáo – Catholicism, Chính thống giáo – Orthodox, và các giáo phái Tin lành – Protestantism). Dù là người ta không mừng lễ Phục Sinh lớn và vui như Lễ Giáng Sinh (Christmas, 25 tháng 12), trên phương diện thần học, lễ Phục Sinh quan trọng hơn lễ Giáng Sinh, vì Kitô Giáo được xây dựng trên một điểm cực kỳ quan trọng—Chúa Giêsu chịu đóng đinh trên thập giá và chết, và ba ngày sau Người sống lại. Phục sinh là sống lại. Lễ Phục sinh là lễ kỷ niệm sự sống lại của chúa Giêsu. Nếu không có sự sống lại, không có lễ Phục Sinh, không có Kitô Giáo. Continue reading Chào mừng lễ Phục Sinh 2024

Born again

Dear Brothers and Sisters,

It is very interesting that the idea of “born again, rebirth, reincarnation” and the like is present in many cultures of the world – Buddhism, Christianity, Hinduism, Jainism, Sikhism, and many religions around the world in small indigenous tribes and nations since the ancient time till now. The idea is some what different with each culture, but they all talk about refreshing our life and our soul with a new beginning. Continue reading Born again

Believe in your great potential

Dear Brothers and Sisters,

If you check all the schools of spirituality of the world, you will realize that they all talk, in one way or another, about the great power inside everyone. Buddhism talks about Buddhahood in each of us. The Abrahamic tradition – Judaism, Christianity (Orthodox, Catholic, Protestant), and Islam – teaches we all are children of God with Spirit of God in us. Advaita Vedanta Hinduism says Atman (a human) is a part of Brahman (God).

Even the non-spiritual schools of today talk about “the force” or “the energy” of the universe that we can activate to work in our favor to achieve what we want. I think these schools simply use the old concepts of the spiritual schools without mentioning the word “God”. Continue reading Believe in your great potential